Why is it SO Hard to Talk About This with Your Partner?

Ever wonder why it can be so difficult to talk about sex with the very person you have sex with? Sure some of us are shy or embarrassed or afraid. But it may surprise you WHY we can feel that way with someone we are so incredibly intimate with. I reveal an amazing and little …

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The Yogini with a Past

In 2010, the media branded her “Europe’s most perverted Dominatrix.” But Ira van Damm’s pro domme sessions don’t sound that extreme to me. And I would not call her or her work “perverted.” But that sort of salaciousness makes for attention getting headlines. Ira van Damm worked under the professional name of Mistress Lucrezia in …

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What If Someone You Love Drinks Too Much?

I have only been in love – truly, deeply in love – twice in my life. So I can be extremely tenacious when the inevitable challenges to relationship arise. I don’t give up easily. I don’t walk away at the first sign of trouble. When I was much younger, I hoped that the intensity of …

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Is Eros the Untapped Renewable Energy of Our Time?

  No,this is not a family of Chimpanzees. Chimpanzees are notoriously violent. This is their closest cousin, the bonobo. And incidentally, the bonobo is also our closest genetic cousin.  What makes the bonobo so special is how they use eros to create a non-violent culture. And for that, we can thank them for leading the way …

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Why Finding Your G-Spot is Worth the Extra Effort

Guest Blog Post by Deborah Logan The G-spot has long been the holy grail of female erogenous zones, an elusive unicorn that sometimes seems more myth than reality. In fact, according to reports, only 30 percent of women say they’re able to achieve orgasm from intercourse alone. While this number might suggest some simply aren’t capable of …

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Parenting Boys and Understanding Men

My friend Dr. Phil Zimbardo says, we are experiencing a “demise of guys.”  In his TED Talk by the same name, he tells us that boys are 30% more likely to drop out of school than girls are. They are also less likely to obtain a college degree. Boys comprise two thirds of the special …

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