How Trauma Can Complicate and Confuse Consent

Trigger Warning: This article includes my personal story of surviving sexual assault and reclaiming my sexual empowerment. I also share crucial and cutting edge information about consent for ALL genders that EVERYONE of us needs to know. My references to men’s and women’s perspectives and behaviors, pertain to anyone who identifies with the societal conditioning …

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Why Rape Survivors Don’t Do What We Think They “Should” Do

The sexual assault allegations that catapulted the hashtag #MeToo into a viral phenomenon reshaped our collective consciousness around consent; and yet our culture and our laws are still mired in the same old victim blaming that has prevented any meaningful movement toward a sexual landscape that would afford us the safety and clarity that we …

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Valentine’s Day Bliss or #MeToo Moment?

What will you do while the world is celebrating Valentine’s Day? Will you share an intimate evening with your special someone? Or simply send a sexy card to a favorite crush? Or maybe you’ll curl up in front of a romantic comedy all alone? For some women, the holiday might feel a little different in …

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Do Boys Have It Harder Than Girls?

Years ago, when my stepson was only six years old, he told me something I have never forgotten. He said “It’s harder for boys.” I intuitively knew what he meant in that moment. And at the same time, I was well aware that it is also harder for girls. Both genders (all genders) suffer because …

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How Does Gender Training Affect Consent?

Years ago, when my stepson was only six years old, he told me something I have never forgotten. He said “It’s harder for boys.” I intuitively knew what he meant in that moment. And at the same time, I was well aware that it is also harder for girls. Both genders (all genders) suffer because …

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Is This a Scary Time for Men?

Last week a male friend shared with me that since #MeToo he is confused and uncertain on dates. Should he initiate the first kiss? Although in the past he would have felt fine kissing his date, now he doesn’t. This same male friend also shared with me his own #MeToo moment. It happened several months …

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