Who’s at Fault Here?

He accused her of maliciously severing his finger and spitefully pooping in their bed. She said he beat her up before he sodomized her with a bottle. There was more of course. And every gory detail was steeped in bitterness and hurt. As Johnny Depp and Amber Heard shared the sordid details of their deeply …

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How Trauma Can Complicate and Confuse Consent

Trigger Warning: This article includes my personal story of surviving sexual assault and reclaiming my sexual empowerment. I also share crucial and cutting edge information about consent for ALL genders that EVERYONE of us needs to know. My references to men’s and women’s perspectives and behaviors, pertain to anyone who identifies with the societal conditioning …

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Loving ALL of You and Saying Goodbye to Shame

It’s no secret that I am on a mission to heal shame. I feel deep in my bones that shame is the cause of so much that hurts and harms all of us. The irony for me is that if we could openly talk about ourselves and our lives without feeling ashamed, we would be …

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How I Healed From Sexual Assault and How You Can Too

In this podcast, Myisha Battle interviews me about how I healed from incest and rape. We talk about my difficulties of being intimate with my partner while experiencing triggers from past abuse. We also explore how I healed those triggers so that I am able to enjoy a vibrant sex life. I share the specific …

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Remember when it seemed easier to hold hands or hug or even kiss?

Has #MeToo cramped your style or opened you to new possibilities? Men and women don’t agree. Not exactly a news flash, I know. But we DO have to start communicating with each other if we are ever going to find our way to mutual understanding and maybe even empathy for our different experiences and perspectives. …

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One of My Most Powerful Podcasts Ever!

These are a few of the topics you’ll get enlightened about in this powerful interview by Christian Pedersen of Love Works: What to do when the doctors say there’s nothing wrong with you, but you still aren’t able to or don’t want to have sex. The “Sexual Ghetto” we create around our own sexuality. Why …

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