What If You Don’t Feel Like It?

Have you ever kissed someone when you didn’t feel like it? Or maybe let someone’s hands roam a few places you really didn’t want them to roam?  What did you do or say?  If you are like a lot of us, you probably just went along with things until you reached a critical point and …

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This Really Worked for Me When I was a High-End Escort

I have a very simple question for you. Do you feel excited and even joyful when you tell someone you care about “No?” Kind of a strange question, huh? Well I don’t always feel that way but a lot of the time I do. And it’s not because I delight in making the people I …

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Life is Too Short Not to Reveal Ourselves Fully

Life is just too short not to reveal ourselves as fully as we can. While many of you know that I have made it my life mission to be gut wrenchingly honest and transparent, I know I am capable of even more. And I crave more. In that spirit, I want to share a recent …

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Harmless Flirting? Or #MeToo? Horses Know!

I confess I am big flirt. And it hasn’t always been the best course of action. Sometimes my flirtations have been misinterpreted as come ons. There is a difference. And yet try explaining that to the guy or gal who feels misled when they discover I was only flirting. How about you? Do you flirt? …

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How Does Gender Training Affect Consent?

Years ago, when my stepson was only six years old, he told me something I have never forgotten. He said “It’s harder for boys.” I intuitively knew what he meant in that moment. And at the same time, I was well aware that it is also harder for girls. Both genders (all genders) suffer because …

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Do Boys Have It Harder Than Girls?

Years ago, when my stepson was only six years old, he told me something I have never forgotten. He said “It’s harder for boys.” I intuitively knew what he meant in that moment. And at the same time, I was well aware that it is also harder for girls. Both genders (all genders) suffer because …

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